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LAWS AGAINST CONSENSUAL ACTIVITIES CREATE A SOCIETY OF FEAR, HATRED, BIGOTRY, OPPRESSION, AND CONFORMITY; A CULTURE OPPOSED TO PERSONAL EXPRESSION, DIVERSITY, FREEDOM, CHOICE, AND GROWTH
Written by Peter Mcwilliams | 
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Drug Abuse
Ain't Nobody's Business If You Do
PART II: WHY LAWS AGAINST CONSENSUAL ACTIVITIES ARE NOT A GOOD IDEA
Idiot, n. A member of a large |
| AMBROSE BIERCE |
HUMAN BEINGS TEND to fear change. For most people, dislike of the new, the different, the out-of-the-ordinary seems to be instinctual. This makes sense: prehistoric humans found that a new animal might try to eat them, a strange vegetable might poison them, or a differently dressed human might try to kill them. Survival lay in sameness, predictability, the status quo. This view led to demand for conformity within the group. It started with children who—for their own survival—were taught to eat certain foods and to avoid others, play with certain animals but stay away from others, walk in certain areas but avoid others. As children grew, they learned more cultural taboos: what to wear and what not to wear, what to say and what not to say, what to do and what not to do. A watering hole may have been off limits simply because an elder saw a wild beast there generations before and declared it taboo. This taboo continued even though the wild beast hadn't been there in decades. An important source of water was lost to the entire tribe just because a wise elder suggested one day, long ago, Stay away from that watering hole.
The soft-minded man |
| MARTIN LUTHER KING, JR. |
Enter the nonconform-ists. There has always been a small percentage of humans who found sameness, predictability, and the status quo dull. They balked at conformity. They wanted newness, information, risk. What most of the tribe called danger, they called adventure. What most found fearful, they found exciting. They were the explorers, the experimenters, the eccentrics. These nonconformists had a mixed reputation in the tribe. Some discovered new territories, techniques, and modes of behavior beneficial to the entire tribe. Others put the tribe in danger by their stubborn refusal to cooperate. The former became heroes; the latter became villains. Before the heroes became heroes, however, they went through a phase of seeming to be villains: they took part in—and later advocated—change, and (as the majority would say) we all know instinctively that change is not a good thing. The minority favoring change has led the majority, kicking and screaming, into the future. And this is as it should be. Society needs the majority of people to maintain the status quo; consistency is necessary to grow things, build things, and raise children. An adventurer might plow a field and plant a seed, then become hopelessly restless a week later. So the adventurer is off to a new field, planting a new seed. The conformist who stays by the planted seed for a season has the benefit of the harvest. Will and Ariel Durant, in their History of Civilization, compare history to a fast-moving river, ever changing, bringing along the new, moment by moment. Civilization, however, happens on the banks of the river where the vast majority of humanity lives, watching the river go by, building their houses, planting their crops, raising their children.
We are all full of weakness |
| VOLTAIRE |
A healthy society needs a balance between the new and the old, between change and the status quo, between trying something different and maintaining tradition. If change happens too quickly, there's no time to see if the previous change is working. If change doesn't happen quickly enough, a society stagnates and begins persecuting the very adventurers who could have led it to a new and better place. A perfect example of too much change too soon was the aftermath of the French Revolution. From 1793 until 1800, France was ruled by government du jour. As Peter Weiss described it, Years of peace, years of war, each one different than the year before. That was the trouble: before a new form of government had a chance to work, it was toppled, its leaders beheaded, and a whole new government put in its place. After a dozen or so attempts at democracy, the French welcomed the dictator Napoleon with open arms. Although a despot, he brought with him what France desperately needed: law, order, and a sense of continuity. How can we tell, as a society, which side of the balance point we are on—whether we're permitting too much or persecuting too much, whether we've gone too far in the direction of change or gone too far in the direction of conformity? An excellent indicator is a society's attitude toward consensual crimes. Let's take a look at two proposals, both considered different based on our current cultural norms. One is The best way to receive is to take—by force if necessary; the other, The best way to receive is to give—even if it means giving everything you own. Neither of these positions will have the majority of our society flocking to them. And yet, in a healthy society, the practice of one of these philosophies should be illegal and the practice of the other should not.
| Now the 21st century approaches and with it the inevitability of change. We must wonder if the American people will find renewal and rejuvenation within themselves, will discover again their capacity for innovation and adaptation. If not, alas, the nation's future will be shaped by sightless forces of history over which Americans will have no control. |
| JOHN CHANCELLOR |
Let's say that each philosophy has a particularly charismatic leader. Two new groups find their way onto the American scene: the Takers and the Givers. The adherents of each group believe what they believe with fanatical devotion. Newsweek and Time do cover stories. 60 Minutes does a special two-hour episode (120 Minutes). The leader of the Takers says that Americans have gotten too soft, that the basic natural principle of survival of the fittest has been eliminated. Our gene pool is polluted. We will die as a society if we don't do something soon. We must put survival of the fittest back into our daily lives. The solution? If you want something, take it. If the people who own it can successfully defend it, they get to keep it. If the people taking it successfully take it, it's theirs—until they are defeated by another Taker. This would take the fat off of humanity fast. We would become strong, lean, and powerful once again. The leader of the Givers maintains that energy is a flow, and the more you give, the more will flow back to you. If you feel you don't have enough, it's not because you need to take; it's because you need to give. Humanity is in trouble because we have not accepted the natural principle of giving practiced by the sun which gives us light, the trees which give us fruit, and all plant life which gives us oxygen. We have taken too much; it's time to give. And the more we want, the more we should give. If we want it all, we should give all that we have away. As an example, the leader of the Takers takes a car, takes a house (If you can't defend your house, you don't deserve to live there), and takes—against their will—two or three attractive women as his own. (If their husbands want them, they can come and get them.)
Arnold Schwarzenegger was |
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The leader of the Givers, by way of example, gives away everything he owns and, whenever he is given something, immediately gives that away, too. Even when given food, he eats only a few bites and gives the rest away. From the point of view of the government, who should be put in jail? One? Both? Neither? The actions of the Givers' leader are potentially only harming himself and those who choose to follow his example. He may give everything away, his philosophy may be flawed, and he may get little or nothing in return. His followers who likewise give everything away are also potentially hurting no one but themselves. If the philosophy fails, there will be sufficient examples of failure, and the vast majority of society will not follow suit. The Takers, however, can do a great deal of harm to nonconsenting others before their philosophy is proven unworkable. Long before people learn it's inconvenient and expensive to go to the grocery store in a tank (and to make sure your tank is bigger than everyone else's tank), society has a right to defend itself from a minority of people involved in an experiment that hurts unwilling others. Two radical points of view, and yet it's appropriate for the government to move in and stop—by force—one, and to practice tolerance with the other. We have the right to defend ourselves from theft, rape, and violence; we do not have the right to defend ourselves—by force of criminal law—from mental or emotional discomfort. Further, from an enforcement point of view, it's easy to tell when the Takers have crossed the line: when they take something without the owner's permission. But how does one set laws against the Givers? Pass a law saying that no one is allowed to give anything away? That you cannot give away more than 25 percent of your net worth? That before you give something away you must prove to an official of the state that giving it away will not negatively affect your well-being? (These suggestions may sound absurd, but take a look at the wording of some of the consensual-crime laws.)
When we got into office, |
| JOHN F. KENNEDY |
Further still, who's going to complain? She gave me five dollars, officer! Put her in jail! Without a victim, it's highly unlikely that most of the crimes committed by Givers would ever be brought to justice. In order to catch them, the police would have to go undercover, pretending to be people in need, waiting for some gullible Giver to give them something. Then the whole question of entrapment arises. Is a Giver guilty of a crime only when the Giver gives unsolicited, or is the Giver also guilty when the receiver has asked? And are those who receive from a known Giver guilty as well? These are fine legal points—precisely the ones that come up every day in apprehending consensual criminals. Meanwhile, all those Takers out there are taking, and the police are so busy entrapping the Givers that there is no time to arrest many Takers. The police are so busy protecting the Givers from themselves that the genuine victims of the Takers get taken. When a country protects itself from change too enthusiastically, it robs itself of the new information, ideas, and behaviors that might make for a better country. When most people's natural fear of the new is supported by law, the law justifies the fear, thus institutionalizing prejudice against anything new and different. (It's against the law; it must be wrong; my fear is right.) When religious leaders rummage about the Bible for scriptural proof that the prejudice is justified (and you can prove anything by selectively quoting the Bible), then the prejudice is enshrined. The law says it's bad; God says it's bad; I feel it's bad; therefore, it's bad.
Let us forget such words, |
| EDNA ST. VINCENT MILLAY |
An attitude such as this demands conformity. How dare you go against what the government, God, and I know to be true? In our country, we've been asked to walk an increasingly narrow line which shows us what we can and cannot put in our bodies, whom we can and cannot love, what kind of sex we can and cannot have, how we can and cannot heal ourselves, the recreational activities we can and cannot take part in, and how we can and cannot worship. The message clearly is "Morality—our way, or else!" We create a culture in which people are incapable of free choice because the culture doesn't allow an individual to gather enough information to make a choice. Experiments in and discovery of viable lifestyle alternatives are replaced by a list of should's, must's, have-to's, you'd-better's, and don't-you-dare's. Some people have the feeling their choices in life are as limited as that of a child being asked, Do you want to go to bed now, or five minutes from now? Sure, there's a choice, but it's a narrow one. We are not permitted to grow up. America has become a Never-Never Land in which the citizens are promising to be good little boys and girls in exchange for the government, like good parents, protecting them from every evil and fulfilling every need. And the government-authorized religious beliefs (authorized by the laws the government chooses to enact or refuses to enact) tell us what to do while we're here and how to insure a happy hereafter.
| The voice of protest, of warning, of appeal is never more needed than when the clamor of fife and drum, echoed by the press and too often by the pulpit, is bidding all men fall in and keep step and obey in silence the tyrannous word of command. Then, more than ever, it is the duty of the good citizen not to be silent. |
| CHARLES ELIOT NORTON |
The repression created by suppressing consensual activities has a trickle-down effect: If these activities can get us put in jail, what about this much longer list of behaviors that are also disapproved of by the people who hold the jail keys? We have become a nation of individuals afraid to explore, afraid to try new things, afraid to be different. Consequently, we never fully discover—much less fulfill—our individual dreams, our heart's desires. Our individual strengths, talents, and abilities are never developed; we sacrifice the better part of ourselves in order to be the way we should be. We and the country as a whole suffer. We deprive ourselves of the best political leaders because we maintain the pretense that our leaders should be perfect—perfect as defined by the keepers of conformity. Thank heavens this narrow-mindedness is loosening up. Kennedy was a Catholic; Carter had lust in his heart; Reagan was divorced; and Clinton smoked pot. Yes, the times, they are a-changing. If it had been Kennedy who admitted to smoking pot—even being in the same room as pot—in 1960, Nixon would have been the one to have had the affair with Marilyn Monroe. Alas, the times (that is, we) are not changing quickly enough. The fishbowl world in which everything a candidate ever did is fully exposed has run ahead of our acceptance for things people do that do not physically harm the person or property of another. The press's ability to tell us what's so has outstripped the American public's ability to say, So what?
James Bryce wrote his classic study |
| JOHN CHANCELLOR |
Gary Hart had a tryst on a boat called Monkey Business, apparently with his wife's permission. So what? Jimmy Swaggart enjoys entertaining prostitutes (or vice versa) in cheap motel rooms. So what? Jerry Brown practices eastern religions and is rumored to practice bisexuality as well. So what? Hugh Grant hires a hooker on the eve of the opening of his first Walt Disney movie. That's not a scandal. That's funny. We have, then, people who are afraid to take leadership positions because some incidents from their pasts are sure to be judged by the moralists. Or we get leaders who are so dull—or so good at covering their tracks—that no taint of nonconformity is possible; example: George Bush. We may be getting the leaders we deserve, but not the best available. Ironically, our insistence on conformity hurts the very institutions it is designed to protect. When we attempt to force everyone into a certain set of behaviors, beliefs, or activities, those very behaviors, beliefs, and activities become eroded and diluted by the people who don't truly want to behave, believe, or act in that way—they are merely doing so out of fear that doing otherwise would cost them. If people do not freely choose to take part in something based on an inner need, desire, or, at the very least, curiosity, the power of the institution is diluted, its purpose diffused, and its future in question. For the good of the institutions we want to preserve, we must stop coercing people into them by force of law.
Prejudice |
| EVE ZIBART The Washington Post |
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